Legacies that linger
February 2012
Published: December 30, 2011
 My mother and me, circa 1962. I’ve always been sorry that my mother, who early on introduced me to the delights of the written word, didn’t live to see that interest blossom into a lifelong career devoted to books and writing. She passed away too soon, when I was in my 20s and still finding my way in life. She left behind her books, as well as notebooks full of poems and journals, which offer a greater understanding of the talented and complex person she was—someone I knew well as a parent, but was just beginning to know on her own terms.
In this month’s Off the Cuff column, novelist Barbara Haines Howett strikes a similar note in “A writer’s legacy” (page 15). Her mother also instilled in her a love of reading, which eventually led her to a life of writing. She tells of books and writings that her mother left, a treasured inheritance that offers “a few answers and some assumptions” about the person she wishes she had known better, yet leaving much to her imagination. Howett writes:
“This has created a burning desire that my children know me as the person beyond the one they saw as a parent. The only way I’ve known to do that has been by ‘writing who I am.’ ... It’s my way of staying alive for them when I am no longer physically here, and offering them an opportunity to discover more about me and perhaps some wisdom about life. Of course, that is also why I write for all of my readers.” |